Back when I
was seven years old, my parents introduced me to scouting. I didn’t really
think much of it, not really knowing what it was about besides what the little
nephews of Donald Duck used to do in the comics. I opted to give it a chance
though, because even back then I was a benevolent little bastard, and went to a
meeting on a Saturday.
I have to
admit that I didn’t really like it, but hey, that was mostly because children
are cruel to each other all the time and I ended up being on the receiving end
of quite a couple of jokes during those first days. My parents pushed me to
keep going, though, so I kept going and toughened up along the way. The motto
of ‘what doesn’t kill me, makes me stronger’ was certainly in good use back
then.
Through the
years, I became more and more invested in scouting. In 2004, when I was
fourteen year’s of age, we went to England to join Camp Downe, introducing me
to an international scouting camp for the very first time and showing me how
amazing it could be to do what I was slowly starting to like doing with people
from all over the world.
In 2007 I
went to the World Jamboree in England, participating in the 100th
anniversary of scouting in what was, back then, the one largest Jamboree ever
held in one place. I was seventeen and, quite frankly, utterly overwhelmed by
the amazing camaraderie shown by everyone who was there. I was proud to be a
Dutch scout.
Unfortunately,
that didn’t last very long. Mere months after that, the group I was part of had
shrunk to eight members who almost never saw eye to eye on anything. Whenever
we decided to do something, it almost always happened that half of the group
folded their arms and didn’t participate. I got frustrated when all we did was
sitting around and making campfires. Granted, I didn’t actually come up with
any better ideas myself, but it was starting to work on my nerves back then.
When I had left a meeting angry, I told myself that I’d stay away for a week or
two to calm down and hope that they’d get a little more initiative in the
meanwhile.
After three
weeks, I called my leader to announce that I was going to stop with scouting.
After ten years, I had finally had it and stopped. Quite the feat, some people
might say. I was disappointed and, quite frankly, missed going to the meetings.
Having my Saturdays to myself was nice, but it still felt like I was missing
something.
When the
time came to register for World Jamboree 2011, in Sweden, I decided to join
Scouting Nederland again as an inactive member. I’d pay contribution like any
other member, but didn’t really do anything. The most important reason I did so
was to be able to enter the Jamboree as a member of the International Service
Team and get the scouting feeling again.
I ran
checkout counter duty for the full two weeks in one of the on-site stores, but
that didn’t matter to me. I once again had a blast of an experience on an
international camp.
November
that year I met my girlfriend, who was a member and group leader in my old
scouting group. Her mother was part of the board.
All that
time I missed going to scouting, but then I finally got a push in the right
direction. I took the opportunity to do something my girlfriend also enjoyed and
get back in the business. Today was the fourth (or fifth? I already forgot)
time I led a group of scouts in the eleven to fifteen year old category and I
got invited to join their summer camp in Austria. I’m having a blast not much unlike
I enjoyed as a youth participant, I’m just enjoying it from the other side of
the leadership fence now. I’m taking an immense liking to the group and, from
what I hear (I got insider information), they don’t mind me at all, either.
If you came
all the way to here, thanks for letting me ramble a bit. Though it forces me to
wake up early on a Saturday and it eats massive amounts of my time, I don’t
think I’ll start regretting this decision anytime soon.
No mention of the awesome friends you made back then? For shame.
BeantwoordenVerwijderenFor shame, indeed!
VerwijderenIt was a summary of the cliff notes, though :P